Hi all,
I have an issue with my current relationship that I'm trying to figure out and I'm looking for some opinions. I have been seeing my girlfriend for almost four months now. We get along great and have not had any arguments and so far I feel that she is trustworthy and honest. She has not done anything to lead me to believe otherwise.
She recently went on vacation with a female friend to Punta Cana. Unfortunately, because of work I was not able to go with her. We kept in touch everyday while she was gone and she gave me updates of what was going on. So, after she returned we were having a conversation about her trip and she proceeds to tell me about all the random guys who were hitting on her, trying to dance with here, or even exposing themselves to her. She said she declined or ignored all of these solicitations and I do believe her. The problem I have is that it seems that she really enjoyed all of it and when she told me it was almost like she was bragging. In my mind it seemed like she was trying to make me jealous. I just listened to what she had to say and didn't come off as jealous, insecure or upset.
I guess I'm just confused as to whether she did this to make me jealous or to want her more. Now, mind you, I have never done anything like this to her because I didn't want to make her jealous or insecure and I'm not sure if doing the same in return would hurt our relationship. I'm just not sure if I should just play it off or be more assertive about my displeasure with all of this.
I have an issue with my current relationship that I'm trying to figure out and I'm looking for some opinions. I have been seeing my girlfriend for almost four months now. We get along great and have not had any arguments and so far I feel that she is trustworthy and honest. She has not done anything to lead me to believe otherwise.
She recently went on vacation with a female friend to Punta Cana. Unfortunately, because of work I was not able to go with her. We kept in touch everyday while she was gone and she gave me updates of what was going on. So, after she returned we were having a conversation about her trip and she proceeds to tell me about all the random guys who were hitting on her, trying to dance with here, or even exposing themselves to her. She said she declined or ignored all of these solicitations and I do believe her. The problem I have is that it seems that she really enjoyed all of it and when she told me it was almost like she was bragging. In my mind it seemed like she was trying to make me jealous. I just listened to what she had to say and didn't come off as jealous, insecure or upset.
I guess I'm just confused as to whether she did this to make me jealous or to want her more. Now, mind you, I have never done anything like this to her because I didn't want to make her jealous or insecure and I'm not sure if doing the same in return would hurt our relationship. I'm just not sure if I should just play it off or be more assertive about my displeasure with all of this.