06-06-2011, 06:06 PM
Join Date: Jun 2011
| | How to get my boyfreind to use more 'iniatitive'
I am in a new relationship, been about 4 months.
I am finding that my boyfriend wont initiate or arrange a date.
he can suggest going to a bar perhaps, but thats about it.
He is not as socialble as me and we know that he is more of an introvert and I am an extrovert.
But everyone knows, that after a while those stories get repeated, talking about your day is limited so to expand and grow you need to share new experiences or a common interest together.
Recently, he suggested meeting up on a particular evening, I said ok, you arrange it. he said 'I duno......what do you wanna do?'
I said, 'whatever you want'
He COUDLNT deal with this.
Am I going to struggle>? becuase if hes like all the time I will get bored. quickly. especially if its me always thinking of things to do. Help!