10-20-2008, 05:05 AM
Join Date: Aug 2008
| | Re: I dont trust him anymore
For what its worth my best friend was a total a-hole to his wife when she got pregnant. In fact they were BOTH equally hard on each other. He wasn't having an affair or thinking of leaving her. It was just all the emotions and stresses that caused them to always be on each others cases. Both of them.
Second, You and your future husband FAIL at communication. I said it before and I'll say it again. GO TO A PRE-MARITAL COUNSELOR! You both have no major bills and live with your parents, so there is no excuse! They will help you build a stronger foundation for communication that you both seem to lack right now.
Third, This guy is a soon to be father and maybe a soon to be husband. He needs to man-up and put up some boundaries with who his friends are. If one of his friendships makes you uncomfortable, guy or girl, then he has remember he is choosing you, HIS future twins, and your insecurities. And he NEEDS to respect that. HE is making the decision, no one is forcing him too. Maybe after you have your kids and have gone to counseling with him and have had the plethora of experiences coming your way you wont care if he hangs with some chick. But now you do, and he chose you, so he has to take everything that comes with it.