I have been married for 13 years. Everything was fine until a seed got planted in my head. This was the first I ever felt like I couldnt trust him, so I watched him like a hawk. Its not like he always went somewhere he shouldnt on the web, it was where it led up to.
I would see something that set me off, confront him then he would delete history. He doesnt know I know other places to look like cookies or dns cache. He has mentioned that he accidently hits a facebook group page and "gets into trouble" but what he fails to realize is its one thing to accidently click on a questionable group page its another story when you follow the link to the main website for that 'group'
Ill give you some examples. I have no doubt that ****** ******* pops up when you go to porn hub, I know because Ive been there. I can tell when it has opped up because it follows the porn history. The first time he went there he googled ****** ******* and went directly to the site, then an article about why women cheat, then the FB AM page where he looked at all the pics.
Now, I know for a fact he entered in attached male seeking female though he denies it. Ill give you a rundown of where he has been and you tell me if I am being over dramatic about it. He went to the FB group younger women who want an older man and clicked on a younger womans profile, looked at all her pics,
He went to FB group sugar daddy for me checked a bunch of racy pics of younger women and also followed the link to their main website, guess he didnt realize he couldnt look without joining.
He went to FB group we are 18+ followed link to their main site, watched the video of 2 girls who were presumably going to get it on and at the bottom of the page he clicked on " to find hot women in your city click here" which he did and it took him to hookup cloud.com
He watched the trailer for avatar 2 and clicked on a article titled "3 questions to make any girl chase you" the link takes you to "accidental loophole in female psychology" where it tells you how to attract ANY woman, go to this vid and such which he did, once you get thru the 2nd video there is a list the choose an option from explaining why you are interested in this system (dont know which one he picked) with your email to get the "7 day crash course in how to attract women"
Of course he panicked because he didnt realize he just signed up for newsletters and that his email would get flooded with these tips on how to attract and turn women on. Oh and according to his email before he deleted everything he signed up for fling.com.
But I have read fling.com is a scam so I didnt put much stake into that. Other than that he hasnt actully signed up for any of these sites but it bothers me he is going to ****** ******* site that promotes cheating and the sugar daddy site. He is obviously looking and wanting something different and this is unacceptable to me.
He admits nothing, he doesnt know that I have as much as I do. I even went so far as to set up a fake FB profile to see if he would actually go the extra mile to cheat. He either suspected it was me or he was afraid I saw the message because he knows I have access to his FB. He made sure he told that he could have just deleted it and not tell me. He only told me about the 2nd msg though, he deleted the first one
There are other issues at hand with him, he says he loves but I dont think he does the way he should. He wont kiss me, he uses the excuse that something in his past makes him not want to. If that truly was the case then why did he kiss me to begin with early in our relationship. He wants no part in foreplay, he wont even touch me, just wants me to spread at will when he decides he wants to.
I have no emotional connection with him anymore, quite frankly Im disgusted to be in the same bed with him, I keep thinking about all he has done and he makes me sick. I have begged him to do something, show me I am wrong about him, we have kids and I dont want to destroy that. I dont know what to do
I would see something that set me off, confront him then he would delete history. He doesnt know I know other places to look like cookies or dns cache. He has mentioned that he accidently hits a facebook group page and "gets into trouble" but what he fails to realize is its one thing to accidently click on a questionable group page its another story when you follow the link to the main website for that 'group'
Ill give you some examples. I have no doubt that ****** ******* pops up when you go to porn hub, I know because Ive been there. I can tell when it has opped up because it follows the porn history. The first time he went there he googled ****** ******* and went directly to the site, then an article about why women cheat, then the FB AM page where he looked at all the pics.
Now, I know for a fact he entered in attached male seeking female though he denies it. Ill give you a rundown of where he has been and you tell me if I am being over dramatic about it. He went to the FB group younger women who want an older man and clicked on a younger womans profile, looked at all her pics,
He went to FB group sugar daddy for me checked a bunch of racy pics of younger women and also followed the link to their main website, guess he didnt realize he couldnt look without joining.
He went to FB group we are 18+ followed link to their main site, watched the video of 2 girls who were presumably going to get it on and at the bottom of the page he clicked on " to find hot women in your city click here" which he did and it took him to hookup cloud.com
He watched the trailer for avatar 2 and clicked on a article titled "3 questions to make any girl chase you" the link takes you to "accidental loophole in female psychology" where it tells you how to attract ANY woman, go to this vid and such which he did, once you get thru the 2nd video there is a list the choose an option from explaining why you are interested in this system (dont know which one he picked) with your email to get the "7 day crash course in how to attract women"
Of course he panicked because he didnt realize he just signed up for newsletters and that his email would get flooded with these tips on how to attract and turn women on. Oh and according to his email before he deleted everything he signed up for fling.com.
But I have read fling.com is a scam so I didnt put much stake into that. Other than that he hasnt actully signed up for any of these sites but it bothers me he is going to ****** ******* site that promotes cheating and the sugar daddy site. He is obviously looking and wanting something different and this is unacceptable to me.
He admits nothing, he doesnt know that I have as much as I do. I even went so far as to set up a fake FB profile to see if he would actually go the extra mile to cheat. He either suspected it was me or he was afraid I saw the message because he knows I have access to his FB. He made sure he told that he could have just deleted it and not tell me. He only told me about the 2nd msg though, he deleted the first one
There are other issues at hand with him, he says he loves but I dont think he does the way he should. He wont kiss me, he uses the excuse that something in his past makes him not want to. If that truly was the case then why did he kiss me to begin with early in our relationship. He wants no part in foreplay, he wont even touch me, just wants me to spread at will when he decides he wants to.
I have no emotional connection with him anymore, quite frankly Im disgusted to be in the same bed with him, I keep thinking about all he has done and he makes me sick. I have begged him to do something, show me I am wrong about him, we have kids and I dont want to destroy that. I dont know what to do