My husband is extremely selfish and refuses to see my view on things he does or doesnt do and how it makes me feel. I do EVERYTHING for him, he wants me to take his shoes/socks off, rub his back, be read willing and able when his need arises to the occasion.
I stewed for the longest time believing he couldnt be that stupid and that he could read my mind. I realized that I clearly had unrealized expectations. So I rectified that by clearly communicating what my needs. It fell on deaf ears. It has been a year and he makes no attempt whatsoever to make me happy.
I like affection, he doesnt because his mom wasnt affectionate. I like kissing, he doesnt because of his mom then the excuse changed to another person. I like foreplay, he says his hands hurt. He expects me to comply when he wants me to touch him but resists when I ask him to return the favor.
Recently we watched 50 shades of grey. He def wanted me to touch him as he grabbed my hand and placed it accordingly. After awhile I got irritated because he had made no attempt to touch me so I stopped. When he protested I stated that he had hands too.
Of course he never did touch me but when the movie was over he jumped up on me then rolled off when he was done. He limits my ability to show affection, how is that fair?
I stewed for the longest time believing he couldnt be that stupid and that he could read my mind. I realized that I clearly had unrealized expectations. So I rectified that by clearly communicating what my needs. It fell on deaf ears. It has been a year and he makes no attempt whatsoever to make me happy.
I like affection, he doesnt because his mom wasnt affectionate. I like kissing, he doesnt because of his mom then the excuse changed to another person. I like foreplay, he says his hands hurt. He expects me to comply when he wants me to touch him but resists when I ask him to return the favor.
Recently we watched 50 shades of grey. He def wanted me to touch him as he grabbed my hand and placed it accordingly. After awhile I got irritated because he had made no attempt to touch me so I stopped. When he protested I stated that he had hands too.
Of course he never did touch me but when the movie was over he jumped up on me then rolled off when he was done. He limits my ability to show affection, how is that fair?