06-13-2011, 11:28 PM
Join Date: May 2011
| | and still it continues...
I don't think I am controlling or jealous for no reason. My wife has guy friends. I know some of them. They are cool and they have earned my respect by always being strictly a friend to my wife.
There are two guys I have not been okay with amongst my wife's friends. The guy she had an EA with last year and this new guy. He is a little more forward than most casual friends. He has also flirted with her. He pretty much does with all his lady friends, but that doesn't make it right, does it? He plays an online game with my wife and the other day he joked with her about going running with her and a friend. To put his comment into context, my wife commented on a FB picture of his that he was showing off all his running shoes and she told him he had way too many running shoes. So then they were chatting, inside this online game, about going running with another female friend they both know. So he says "let's make it a threesome with the shoe ho".
This guy has not earned my respect and he continues to cross the line in my opinion. Whether or not my wife reciprocates, it still makes me upset and uncomfortable about the whole friendship. I brought it up tonight, then she admitted to having erased some of those messages from him so I wouldn't worry. I got upset but then she got totally violent. Then I calmed the conversation down.
So, why does my wife continue to want to be his friend if it is something that makes me uneasy? Also, am I being reasonable or not?
PS should I say something to this guy myself? She has told him to not do it but he has a couple of times now.
Last edited by tjlee; 06-13-2011 at 11:52 PM.