06-15-2011, 12:45 PM
Join Date: Jun 2011
| | Re: Wife or Kids how can i choose?
I will not say your wife was wrong for leaving her children, only for the fact that they are fully grown. Your children on the other hand are minors, stay with your children period. If your wife cannot agree to that, then make sure to use delta for her ticket.
But on a different note. I will say your children are old enough to understand you would not be walking out on them. So i do understand the situation entirely. I think i would have broke down and cried if my children had said that. Part happy tears and part sad tears. But thing thing is that your wife has had a raised her children and is looking for a kicked back life now. Which leads me to believe she had the initial impression that the children where not gonna be part of the deal when she got there. But her lack of maturity on how she has chose to handle this is what drops my jaw. You cant have one without the other in your situation. I really hate that you have been put in this situation. But my heart goes out to your children when i say this. I feel that even tho they are old enough to understand you would not be walking out on them, they still need you as the role model in their life. So from one man to another i will tell you. Stay with them. Love knows what is right and wrong. It will reward you for doing the right thing, it will bring another for you.
Last edited by Mirrormask; 06-15-2011 at 12:54 PM.