My husband and I have been together for five years (since we were 18), and married for one. When we got together we lived in Oregon and everything was great! Our families got along well and our siblings were even friendly with each other. After a year in Oregon my husband's family decided to move to Arizona and live closer to his grandmother because she told everyone she was ill and dying. (found out when we moved here that was NOT the case.) Anyway I have asthma, lupus and a sun allergy. and had my illnesses under control in Oregon, because where we lived wasn't bad, never got to hot and there was almost always some clouds in the sky. But I followed my husband without question because it'd be good for him to be near his family while he finished his chemo treatments. In the last year my asthma has went from benign to Severe due to the extreme heat. It gets up to 120 here in the summer and it's always sunny so I'm constantly covered in rashes. I go to school full time doing my pre-reqs for nursing and work full time at and Insurance adjusters office and he is currently certified in Phlebotomy (Blood sucker), but works part time at a clothing store because he's scared to do what he's trained for.
I mentioned moving back to Oregon to be closer to my family and get my health back under wraps and he lashed out. Saying I am unreasonable and that I need to be away from my family because it'll do me good, I see them too much anyways. (We see my family once a year if we can afford it)
I come from a very tight knit family. My sister, brothers and I are extremely close and talk to each other a few times a week with Facetime.
We live right next door to his grandparents (which we did because we thought his grandma was ill and it'd be easy for us to help take care of her), his sister lives a block away and his parents live just up the road. We see his family constantly! I am trying to get him to see how he's being unfair telling me I see my family too much and it's good for me not to be near them, or go somewhere I can get my health under control. I've been hospitalized three times in the last year and half for my asthma. My parents are beyond mad at this point and ready to fly down and drag me home. but I dont' want to throw away my marriage.
I mentioned moving back to Oregon to be closer to my family and get my health back under wraps and he lashed out. Saying I am unreasonable and that I need to be away from my family because it'll do me good, I see them too much anyways. (We see my family once a year if we can afford it)
I come from a very tight knit family. My sister, brothers and I are extremely close and talk to each other a few times a week with Facetime.
We live right next door to his grandparents (which we did because we thought his grandma was ill and it'd be easy for us to help take care of her), his sister lives a block away and his parents live just up the road. We see his family constantly! I am trying to get him to see how he's being unfair telling me I see my family too much and it's good for me not to be near them, or go somewhere I can get my health under control. I've been hospitalized three times in the last year and half for my asthma. My parents are beyond mad at this point and ready to fly down and drag me home. but I dont' want to throw away my marriage.