Re: Unhappy wife = unhappy husband (crap, I'm the husband)
No. Your not the problem of her happiness. But you are the problem yours. Big time.
Go to the men's forum. Read the sticky at the top about nice guys. See if anything reads true to how your acting. Read two books, to give you some insight into you...
No more mr nice guy
Hold onto your nuts.
The problem, from your brief post, is that you put your wife on a pedestal, and you think doing all these things for her will make her happy, and in following, she will be so grateful to you that she will swoon all over you, give you BJs every day, and you will get non stop sex from her just for being nice.
It doesn't work that way. At all. You need to Man Up. Meaning, you need to take control of your own happiness, your boundaries, and your happiness in life. Oddly enough, when you work on yourself, become more alpha, man up, and take control of you....it has this strange affect of making your wife swoon all over you, give you BJs every day, and you will have non stop sex. Well, ok, maybe not nonstop, but you get the point.
Read the sticky. And the books.
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Last edited by alphaomega; 06-16-2011 at 02:24 PM.