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Thanks for all you posts. It's been a rough few days. He came home a few days ago and we had a talk. He stayed for a day then left to move in with some friends to think things through. He said he is not leaving to be with the other girl as he doesn't want a relationship from her, but he doesn't feel happy with me and needs to think what he wants. I called him 2 days later and he was with her again discussing his concerns over his life. I'm prepared to let go, I've been reading a lot about midlife crisis and I'm sure that's what he has, but according to what I've read it could be months, even years before he can think normal again. I offered to save us, but have now realized there is nothing I can do if he wants to go. In fact, I should let him go.. Very hard, but what choice do I have really.
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