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Would you let your wife or girl friend wear this dress ?

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Would you let your wife or girl friend wear this dress

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I had a fight with my wife, she wants to wear dresses like this, I said it is inappropriate and that it looks ****ty.

I do not want men staring at her while she wears this kind of dresses and she says, that i am a grand father and not modern.

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#5 ·
If her body is as good as that models sure, it isn't really slvtty. How old is your wife? It is only age appropriate for someone under 30 IMO, who has a really good body. It looks like summer club wear.

But "let" your wife wear anything? Even if she looks like Honey Boo Boo's mother and she wants to wear it, she should go ahead.
 
#10 ·
I don't have the body for it, but if I did, I'd wear that. At least to a place/occasion where such an outfit would be appropriate.

And I'm glad to be from a culture where, as a grown woman, the men in my family aren't in a position to allow or disallow me to choose my own clothing. I consider my guy's opinions about what clothing he likes to see me in, but I wouldn't be happy at all if he took the position that he wasn't going to "let" me wear something I'd chosen. The flip side of that is, of course, that I also don't try to dictate what he's "allowed" to wear. Because, you know....grown-ups.
 
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Certainly would be becoming on my RSXW! If she chose to go "commando," she could multitask by going dancing and then simultaneously sweeping up the dance floor!
 
#19 ·
Damn it dude are you retarded or stupid?

Let her wear the faaking dress and stop being so fearful and jealous of other men that have nothing. She's yours. Get it?

Newsflash: People have imaginations. A woman could be wearing a parka and I can still think of dirty things about her.

What are you, a paki boomer? Lol. Just kidding.

You should be thankful. I really didn't like how my ex-wife never wore anything skimpy. I like when girls are confident enough to do that. Turning her down could be a big mistake dude. She might end up wearing the things she want when you don't anyways. Use it to your advantage, but don't be controlling or needy.

Take her out, treat her right and don't be afraid to show you love her body in public!! Wrap your arm around her. Guys will look, like it or not, when you are and aren't around.

The question is, do you look at other girls? Is this just a reflection of yourself?

Doyle rules.
 
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#25 ·
A woman's body is her own and you have no damn right telling her what she can or cannot wear! Even if you are her husband! Who the hell do you think you are?

If your wife wants to dress like a Manila hooker, then that is her right and freedom. Quit being so controlling you Neanderthal. Your just mad because you think some guy with a bigger pecker is going to hit on her and steal her away from you. You are so immature and needy. Oh and change the oil in her car....she has a c0cktail party to go to tonight, didn't you remember?
 
#29 · (Edited)
"Yes quit being so controlling",

looks who's talking, "embrace singlehood" ha ? i can see from your posts you are loner and girls dumped you or broke your heart.

I will control my wife, i will do what i want, i am not needy or immature, I dont just run when things dont work out, unlike you.

There are so many girls in this world, i can run from girl to girl or stick with one and keep my vows. I have no problem finding girls, if you think i am needy and immature. You do not know me.

Know how to keep your woman, love is not the only thing that will keep your woman, you can read all the threads posted here. Loved the husband cheated on with some one else. I do not trust men period. They do not even leave married women. Every man who tries to lay with a married woman should be hanged.

If others want to trust it's their problem.

and you stay alone, better for you that way :)
 
#27 · (Edited)
If she has the figure to "pull that off" and she has solid boundaries, God bless her. Back in the day, my wife wore tight fitting dresses like that, on occasion, when we were out together only. Frankly, she can still "pull that off", but is concerned about dressing age appropriate.

That being said, I think your wife should consider your feelings. If you're that uncomfortable with that kind of dress, she shouldn't wear it. Conversely, you shouldn't do anything that might make her uncomfortable. It's a give and take.
 
#36 ·
I think there needs to be compromise between a man and his wife.

I would be kind of pissed if she went out dressed like that without me. But I would let her go. When she got back that night she would see the brand new $1,400 Kimber hunting rifle on the table I bought while she was gone. See, I'm passive aggressive that way.

But, if she dressed like that and was hooked on my arm for the night...hell yes....we'd paint the town....
 
#42 ·
I could do something similar to this, but at the right time.

The thing is she does something and i take revenge, this cycle continues. What is the point of being married ?. We would better go our own separate ways.

I have no problem with her wearing this kinds of dresses, when she is with me. We are in a distance relationship, she lives in Europe and i live here.

As Roselyn pointed out, this is a club wear.
 
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