06-28-2011, 09:48 PM
Join Date: Jun 2011
| | my wife refuses to return to counseling
my wife refuses to return to counseling. we have had a number of problems in the past, admittedly many of them my fault. currently i am working a full time job, going to college, and we are raising two children. Most of the time that i see my wife she is constantly blaming me for one thing or another. we went to counseling twice about a year ago. the first time we went the counselor pointed out things i could fix, but the second time we went she pointed out problem that she should work on, primarily control issues. after that she refused to return. I used to stand up to her, but she is relentless in her arguing. I have gotten stressed to the point were i went to a friends with the kids just so i could try to calm down for a few hours. she follows me and refuses to leave me alone until i give in. how do i get her to agree to counseling?