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Have a date tonight but it's not working out the way I want

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#1 ·
The plan was to come home from work and get dress and head back out the door. Not come home, relax for 2 hours on a work night and then go back out the door at 8pm lol

It was looking like she was playing games because I text her to say I was home and got no reply. Then I called and got the voicemail and I started getting comfortable to relax the rest of the evening.

Then she sends a text and ask is 8:30pm ok? I am not a fan of going back outside on a work night but what the hell it's my last date of the month.

So I will go and try to do the opposite of what I did last week on the other date.
 
#7 ·
Well I just arrived home. Of course I don't want to assume anything but it was some things I felt good about during the date. I did tell her to contact me when she arrived home

Just to give myself a clear mind, I added her to my spam list and turned my phone off. I don't want to know if she didn't contact me tonight I rather wait until tomorrow


Not sure if these are signs of interest

1. Never took out her phone during the date

2. Told me her living situation........Lives with her parenrs

3. Lots of laughing during the date



Date ended with her saying "It was good to meet you" and asking me have I met others off *******



So I don't know what to think. I will have my answer tomorrow morning
 
#8 ·
Well I just arrived home. Of course I don't want to assume anything but it was some things I felt good about during the date. I did tell her to contact me when she arrived home

Just to give myself a clear mind, I added her to my spam list and turned my phone off. I don't want to know if she didn't contact me tonight I rather wait until tomorrow


Not sure if these are signs of interest

1. Never took out her phone during the date

2. Told me her living situation........Lives with her parenrs

3. Lots of laughing during the date



Date ended with her saying "It was good to meet you" and asking me have I met others off *******



So I don't know what to think. I will have my answer tomorrow morning
:iagree:
 
#10 ·
I did have a good time. I also hinted at what goes on in the city on Thursdays nights and mentioned a restaurant with a wonderful atmosphere. She was asking what the name of the place was but I was acting like I couldn't remember and want to keep it a secret just in case we see each other again.
 
#11 ·
Did you just get created a week ago and are just discovering dating.. Your 30.. What were you married at 12 ?

You act like dating is this big mystery..

I'm out of a 20 year relationship and I even get the concept dating and a first date..

She looked at me, took 3 deep breaths and then one short one..

What does it mean ? Does she like me ? Does she have asthma ?

Should I give her a roofie like the others ? If she has asthma, will she get a bad reaction to the roofie ?

When I have sex should I turn all my stuffed animals around so they can't see or just the ones closer to my bed.. Because we all know stuffed animals are far sighted..

And if mom comes to the door what should I do ?
Should I tell her I'm watching a war movie ?
Or some euro horror flick ?

How many parts water to bleach to remove DNA evidence ?

Coupon at taco bell ? Yes ? No ?

Breakfast after 12PM?

Sorry I'm a d0uche.. But I can admit it though..
 
#25 ·
Aren't you the dude with the no first date on bad weather days rule? And now you are hiding your phone in your closet?

Here is my dating advise to you. The next date you have, be it a 1st date or 2nd or whatever, tell your date that when you are hoping for a text or call, you turn your phone off and hide it in the closet. Full disclosure. I would want to know this if I were on a date with you. Then I would hope I hadn't been silly enough to give you my address, excuse my self to the bathroom, climb out the window, and run. Far.
 
#27 ·
I still think either Aspberger's or troll.... Hiding the phone just because you aren't ready for rejection? If she called or txtd and you didnt answer, that could have blown the entire thing and this thread will mirror your last thread. Go get the phone and make sure she didn't need or want you for something. She might be like you and get angry if you don't answer and again, we will have a thread like the last one. At least this time you seem to have shown some manners. Now, check the phone. If dates cause you this much stress and anger (like the last one) then you really shouldn't be dating...
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#31 ·
Bad idea. If she did text you back Weds night when she got home saying she had a good time, when did you want to do it again and then you leave her hanging for two days? She's going to think (a) you're not interested and/or (b) you're playing games. Don't do that.

Check your phone and deal with it. It was one date. If you need a weekend to get over a girl not being interested in you after one date, you are not ready to be dating at all.
 
#33 ·
It was a saturday night.. I remember it well..

We watched when harry met sally.. I gently moved my hand towards my crotch.. I just opened up a new box of puff plus. You know the ones with aloe.. And I got this jergens rejuvenating skin lotion.. And we made love to each other for a whole 10 minutes during the katz deli scene.. You know the one where she does that sound stuff........................................................

Sorry I was reliving the moment I had to step out.. But I'm back..

No one else is really taking this guy seriously, right ? I consider this like messing around with a telemarketer..

I mean does anyone think this is real ? And I'm asking a serious question.
 
#43 ·
The original plan was to go to star bucks but it was too crowded so we took a walk and found a place to see and talk while sipping on cappuccino. We discussed our likes and dislikes. She told me she lives with her parents because she wants to buy a house. We both live Mexican food and football. She asked where I lived and showed me a picture of her pets. Date ended with her asking have I met anyone else from ******* and we hugged and I told her to let me know when she arrived home.
 
#44 ·
The original plan was to go to star bucks but it was too crowded so we took a walk and found a place to see and talk while sipping on cappuccino. We discussed our likes and dislikes. She told me she lives with her parents because she wants to buy a house. We both live Mexican food and football. She asked where I lived and showed me a picture of her pets. Date ended with her asking have I met anyone else from ******* and we hugged and I told her to let me know when she arrived home.
So do you know yet if she ever got home?
 
#52 ·
Apologizing for saying I shouldn't have put her on spam. So if I check it tomorrow and there is no text that means I was right in avoiding whether or not she text when she arrived home.

Now if she was to call me tonight out of nowhere I will set up a 2nd date with her this weekend. My account doesn't want me to go on another date until 8/7
 
#54 ·
Apologizing for saying I shouldn't have put her on spam. So if I check it tomorrow and there is no text that means I was right in avoiding whether or not she text when she arrived home.

Now if she was to call me tonight out of nowhere I will set up a 2nd date with her this weekend. My account doesn't want me to go on another date until 8/7
Your account? What do you mean?

This is going to go down two ways:

1. You check, and there's no text, and she gets a nasty message from you for blowing you off.
2. There is a text, you blew HER off by not responding, and she decides you're a game player and wants nothing to do with you.

Either way, you are not getting this girl.
 
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