Re: Facebook Kills Relationships
When I had problems in my marriage, but before I knew he was havng an EA, sometimes I would Google old BFs. I didn't have facebook, and I didn't want to get in touch. I was just thinking, wondering how their lives had turned out. I could see their houses on Google earth. I knew some of their phone numbers, and if they were married. Kinda stalker-ish. I know. But I never called, or drove past, or emailed. Of, course, geek hubby searched my history (because he was up to no good, and so assumed I was too.) And he probably thinks I was doing stuff I wasn't. We were both wrong for typing instead of working on our marriage. But bottom line is, I could have made contact, and I repeatedly chose not to. Everything is a choice.
Including the choice to be a doormat after discovery, which I also made.
To friend or not to friend. Think twice, Urich.