07-13-2011, 04:17 PM
Join Date: Jul 2011
| | Re: I'm too clingy and need help!
Hey buddy, you got it bad eh?
Love does make people to crazy things, and your definitely in love. But your obsession is going to kill every relationship, no matter who with. I am not going to say drop it and move on like everybody else.
BUT you need to give her space, and you need to give yourself space. In these situations it has nothing to do with the relationship, it only has to do with you. So you need to work on yourself. There are tons of self help courses out there, or even go to a counselor.
In time once you got yourself all straightened out, I am sure she will notice the change and then you can work on the relationship.
Take care of yourself first though my friend. The first love is always the hardest.
P.S. once you gain some self confidence, if she has moved on, dont be afraid to to see what else is out there. If you 2 are meant to be, in time it will happen. But dating never hurts.