I have a great husband that I love very much. I'm worried that he has contempt for me. His mom and dad have never argued. They have been married for over 50 years. His dad is the most unhappy man I know. Instead of dealing with feelings or issues, my hubby's parents ignore nor it or bury it. Of course this leads to unresolved anger, hurt feelings, etc. My husband said something to me today that made me feel like he was becoming his dad. We were at a movie and he started to walk towards some seats that were behind a couple with a toddler and in front of 2 teenaged girls. I immediately said, "Can we go up here?" while motioning to the upper rows. He followed me while sporting his "tense" face. When we sat down I said that we could move closer if he wanted and that I was trying to get away from the noisey people. He looked at me and said, "You always do that. Whatever I choose something, you choose the opposite." My face must have said it all because he then said, "It's just how you are. You do always do what you want." I must have sat in stunned silence for a full 15 minutes before I felt the tears well up in my eyes. I wanted to tell him that I'd rather he speak his mind when something bothers him instead of waiting until he's so angry that he pops but I know it would've turned into a "See, I can never tell you how I feel because you always take it the wrong way" kind of discussion. So, I followed his lead and ignored it. Now I'm worried that we're becoming his parents and that TERRIFIES me. Any advice???