What is wrong with him
I have been married over 35 years. First 10 were awesome, then thngs went down hill. I have no idea of what happened. My husband is a professional, and I can't get him to work more than half time. All he wants to do is sit on the couch and watch TV. We have had to file bankruptsy 5 times, lost 3 homes, IRS leins, umpteen lawsuits, multiple cars repo'd, utilities shut off all the time, phones shut off, creditors calling all the time, yet he spends money on himself shockingly. He probably spends over a thousand a month on his "things". Won't give me any money, was a stay at home Mom with 4 kids who turned out great. He is overwieght by about 60 lbs. and eats like you wouldn't believe. Has dinner and then starts with ice cream cookies nuts crackers and cheese EVERY night. Has had heart surgery and still kept on eating. He does the grocery shopping (won't give me the money) so I can't keep it out of the house. No IRA, no savings, checking account is in the negative almost daily, he pays over 1500 a month in bounced check charges. If I try to talk to him about it he starts screaming at me, virtually everytime he speaks to me it is very angry. I say it's because he blames me for making him work, that he looks at me and then feels guilty. Will not do anything around the house, has mowed the lawn probably 10 times in 35+ years, seriously will not do anything. He will walk past a piece of garbage for days until I pick it up. I have left things to see if he would do it, months later I cave. Leaves dirty plates and glasses on the counter. Unbelievably lazy. Bathes once a week (no exaggeration) on Friday night and smells terrible, we finally have separate bedrooms because I couldn't stand the smell. Hve not had sex in probably 8 years, and I couldn't stand it because he smelled so bad. I want to leave, but there is no money to leave or go any where......what does someone like me do, at my age. I could go on and on, but the above suffices.