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Old 07-28-2011, 12:46 PM   #1 (permalink)
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First off I know what I have been doing is wrong and I take full accountability for what I have done: here goes…

I often go out of town about once a month or so to see my mom and her fiancé well this summer my mom’s fiancé best friend was over to go swimming and hangout which is he married and I have meet his wife before, however we ended up kissing that night and while I know it’s wrong I just didn’t stop him. We live 2 hours away from each other we DON’T talk on the phone we DON’T email each other we only see each other when I am there.

This has happened 3 times we haven’t had no sexual contact at all ( not that it makes it any better) we just really have a good time with each other I really enjoy our conversations, he makes me laugh. I really want to be able to walk away from this and not cause any issues for him and I had planned that this past weekend but I couldn’t do it what is wrong with me???
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Old 07-28-2011, 12:59 PM   #2 (permalink)
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You are obviously a teenager. Once you grow up, hopefully you start acting more appropriately.
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Old 07-28-2011, 08:59 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Have you ever had a bf that was a little too friendly with other girls? Did it make you jealous?
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Old 07-29-2011, 12:05 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Sounds like it's the euphoria taking over when the situation comes up. Find it within yourself to realize that it's wrong and no matter how great it makes you feel becoming close to this man, he is married and you could end up causing a lot of pain for many people. I take it you are single? If that's the case then you have other choices out there so find someone who is available, one who wants to be part of YOUR world and can let you into his...
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Old 07-30-2011, 09:35 AM   #5 (permalink)
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The only thing that's wrong with this situation is that you feel guilty cause hes married.

"All the married guys who like to flirt with girls raise their hands"...lol

Many men are flirtacious but that can mean nothing.
Would you feel better if he wasn't married? Would that be ok?
Plus if it feels sooo wrong, why do you meet up with this guy? 3 times??? Are you kidding? You like him A LOT, IMHO (In My Humble Opinion).
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