08-12-2011, 11:19 AM
Join Date: Dec 2009
| | Re: Should I get out before starting school or stick through it?
I just don't know what to do anymore. We had a lot of issues before and finally I suggested he get evaluated for ADHD. When he started that process I thought things would change but they really didn't. He went on one medication which helped him focus and be more productive but he got really angry and mean and he snapped one day and ended up in jail. So he got off of that medication and went onto another and now he's pretty much acting the same as he used to. We went to a few marriage/relationship classes separately and together and they gave me a little hope but didn't change much in our relationship. We went to a marriage counseling session and it was kind of embarrassing. We sound like a train wreck. This week, I got surgery and I was really counting on him to be there for me (hence him being in the military I am nowhere near family and friends). He physically was there before and during the surgery, but after he didn't do much. He went back to work. He didn't walk my dog for me or buy me a get well card or anything. I figured either a present or attentiveness would be suffice, but I basically got neither. I'm just at my wit's end with the whole relationship. He said I could stay here and go to school but I would feel wrong about that Im not really one to use people and thats basically what I would be doing. But, realistically, I don't have a car, money, job etc. so I don't really have a choice but to accept the favor. I dont know what to do really.