Let this be a lesson. Don't fall in love with virgins. The score will never be even and some guys just can't handle that. It's called being young.
Let's not paint all Virgins black here.... Everyone has a right to conduct themselves how they see fit before marraige, he does not fit the "waiting for his soul mate romantic" virgin profile... since he is so willing & adament to throw himself into meaningless sexual romps without emotion- to even "a score of 4"...
This is not the same spirit in which a Virgin of worth carries into a Loving relationship -where they wanted so much to save themselves for their one & only, seeing this as a SACRED act saved & shared between 2 souls in life..... Sure it is a letdown, something to greive even (though others may find that stupid, I don't feel it is)....but not
a dealbreaker when you find someone you love deeply in this life... It is a small hump to overcome and move on, allowing the past to be what it was, but all things are new...a new beginning.
He has more going on here....(this poster is long gone anyway).....His reasons for being partnerless were not due to his waiting
for his one & only....maybe he just hasn't had the chance to Jump more women...maybe he is shy, an Ugly duckling, and feels cheated. It's not the same thing. He IS
immature and not ready for marraige by any means, he wants to enjoy being a Player for a time...hardly exemplary.
One is born out of feeling ..."he missed out & I want to live it up -have a screwing good time" --another is born out of wanting to give everything you are, to the one you love, that you cared enough to wait, and still wouldn't take that back, even if she did have others before you.