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Welcome to Talk About Marriage.

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#149 ·
Need advise on marriage.

When the wife wants to talk and when you do talk she is only one talking and if I want to say something I am Interrupting. If I don't say anything then I don't care.

Like today we where talking and someone text her about someone just got Admitted to the hospital. This is when I was talking but she say sorry to cut you off and we will finish our talk later but I have to find out about our friend. I feel and even told her you don't consider my feeling.
need help or advise.
 
#150 ·
Need advise on marriage.

When the wife wants to talk and when you do talk she is only one talking and if I want to say something I am Interrupting. If I don't say anything then I don't care.

Like today we where talking and someone text her about someone just got Admitted to the hospital. This is when I was talking but she say sorry to cut you off and we will finish our talk later but I have to find out about our friend. I feel and even told her you don't consider my feeling.
need help or advise.
 
#151 ·
:smthumbup: finally found a site that is more my style i joined another site ( mainly about pregnancy) and decided not to stay around long because everyone is 10 15 years younger than i am..

SO ya for me..

ok, about me i am a 35 yr old who has lived with the same man for 8yrs and 6 months, i have 1 child ( not his) whom is 16 yrs old, but he treats him like his.. we have had our issues and i am glad to me here to discuss them.


thanks for having this site and i will def become part of the community ;):p
 
#155 · (Edited)
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I just joined this site yesterday, morning...​
I have been sitting here trying to help out others and then today I am the one who is coming here... I have been married to my husband for over 17 years and there are a lot of things I really do not even understand him... He was for one raised from his Mother, and she raised all her seven children not love, not to show pain to anyone but to her; well, with him he really is not even able to do these things or to even feel the pain when something really bad goes wrong...

With his other sister's and one brother​
They grew to love and to show that they are hurting... Well, that is not the only thing though- he has away of getting me upset and then when he knows it works he then becomes such an ass to me- he makes me then where I am crying and really feeling really bad... Just like today; see, him and me had to end up getting a divorce for a very short time due to the State, keeps pushing me around and will not help me when they say I am able to get my SSI- anyhow it went to where we had to throw away 17 years of our marriage to get the help that I need... Which took place 8 months ago (We still live together) anyway it has been so much hell on me, I love him so damn much; I mean I love him more than life it self and beyond all the stars in the sky- I am not even able to write you, for to know how strong my love is for this man, I am even more in love with him then that...
As I was saying though​

We have done EVERYTHING that the state has told us to do- they just keep on saying that I have to do this and that I have to do that. They have even said themslves "You, have been disable since a child" which is true and now with this disease I was born with it is just getting way worse than it was... Well, anyhow this has been so hard on me not having him as my loving Husband like he was- even though I know we are going to be remarried again on our wedding day which is May 5th- I am just so hurt that it went to us having to thrown 17 years of our marriage out the window and I still am not even getting the help from the State- like they keep saying I will get...LEFT]​
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I still call him my husband because in my eyes he is.​
We are still together- all the way. I just hate though how he makes me where I get so upset and then he- treats me so badly when he does the job of hurting me. Then when I do get all upset into tears; and I mean tears that just keep on rolling. We then start yelling at each other. Why, would he keep wanting to start fights with me though?​
You, all may end up saying- where he can find​
Away out of the house because he is cheating on you. Well, NO HE IS NOT- he has not ever cheated, I am his one and only one he has ever been with. I am also his first girfriend he has ever had, the first one he has ever loved. I am the first on everything with him, everyone wants to make it where he looks so bad when for one. There really is not any male like him. He is very rare on how he is... Just like when the first time we made love- we did not rush right into it- yes, there was touching, and kissing, him even touching down on me. But the love making did not take place for six months. We did get engaged with each other right away though. Him and me started dating on Dec 7th 1995 and we were engaged a week before Christmas... He did not ask me in the words of "Would you marry me" I am able to tell what someone is thinking.
He beat around the brush and I asked
Are you trying to ask me to marry you? and then he said "Lets not tell you mom until I come back here tomorrow from work... Which yes, he is way older than I am and I was 15 years old at the time.... Anyhow enough of all of that- I want someone to help me though with what they may think and not someone who would just say that he is cheating on you... I need to know a few more things as well though​


1. Like I asked- why does he always find ways to upset me and put me into tears?

2. Is there anyway of me really having him break from the way he was raised not showing his love, and feelings....

3. This one I will not say until I see how these are answered
 
#156 ·
Greetings everyone. My relationship roller-coaster in a few sentences: I married first at 24. Divorced at 26 (10 year relationship). Married again at 27 last December. Joined to see if stress I feel in my relationships are a "ME problem" or a result of others. I look forward to talking with some great people.
 
#164 ·
EA is an abbreviation for "Emotional Affair" -- this would be an affair where they are "just friends" but spend hours on the cell phone, texting, emailing, etc. but haven't yet had sex.

PA is the abbreviation for "Physical Affair" -- this would be an affair that is a One Night Stand (ONS) or that has crossed from an EA to kissing/touching, or from an EA to having sex.
 
#169 ·
Hi, I have had some concerns with my relationship with husband of 8 years (I guess this year will be 9), and relationships within the family too, as we have a blended family, sometimes it gets hairy. I need some support and hopefully provide support for others as well.
So I found this site today and it looks good.:)
 
#171 ·
Hiya Folks!

Im from the eastcoast, so...ummm...yeah..right about now im freezing my ass off and wishing for some sun. 40 married for 16 years, right before the baby was born, GO US! lol, 4 lovely children...well...they arent so lovely right at this moment because my three daughters are yellling their heads off downstairs and im doing my best to ignore it and let my husband handle it.

Im actually a therapist in real life, but i do kids and teens, them i "get", lol, but damn if i can fix what goes on in my personal life, lmao. Its a running joke...usually in my head, hahaha.

Found this site looking for was to NOT stab my husband in his sleep....THATS a running joke in my head too, lmao.

Anyway look forward to reading and sharing. :)
 
#172 ·
I just found this forum. Thought I was introduce myself. I've been married for 18 years have children and up until five years ago, I had the marriage and relationship that other people envied. We've grown apart, and I'm here to get advice.

I feel like I can't really talk about my concerns with our mutual friends, and I think it's destructive and a breach of trust and respect to talk with my mom or my sister. But I need an outlet to vent and get advice from time to time. This looks like the place for that.

For now, I'll just read and absorb, and maybe comment every now and then. I hope to learn from others.
 
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