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Old 01-30-2007, 08:28 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Welcome to Talk About Marriage.

Talk About Marriage is a forum to discuss marriage and relationships. Here, we interpret the word "marriage" loosely, recognizing that many different people from different cultures view marriage differently.

I started Talk About Marriage because I know that there are a ton of people out there looking for help and support in their relationships. Talk About Marriage provides a unique opportunity for people to anonymously post and provide feedback to others about their relationships. There is no cost for using this website; it is entirely supported by advertising and it's parent site, The Family & Marriage Counseling Directory.

The Family & Marriage Counseling Directory has been one of the top sites in the search engines for "Marriage Counseling" and "Family Counseling" since 2003. Because of this, I am aware of the masses of people that are searching for help on the internet. Based on some rough statistics, I can estimate that about a half million visitors came to the site this past year.

Talk About Marriage is designed to be a community forum for those interested in talking to others about their relationships, but perhaps not ready to take the extra step to get professional help. Be aware that there are professionals available for relationship help all around the world, and The Family & Marriage Counseling Directory is just a small sample of therapists who have chosen to advertise.

The American Association of Marriage and Family Therapy has a service called Therapist Locator, which lists trained marriage and family therapists in the US, Canada, and Overseas.

The American Psychological Association also has a referral service called the APA Help Center.

In addition, the Open Directory Project has a category full of other mental health counseling directories. And there are advertisers on this site who provide professional services as well.

As you can see, I am partial to professional help. One reason being, that I have a post-graduate degree in Social Work, and I believe it to be a worthy field with impeccable values. The other reason I am partial to professional help, is that I've done my own work in different forms of therapy for many years, and I've found it to be an incredible life-enriching process that has helped me to become a good husband and father. Therapy has a way of helping me see things I wouldn't normally see, and learn things about myself that I might never have learned.

Of course, I've heard all of the horror stories about therapists out there who "did this" or "said that!" I'm very fortunate that the one's I've spent time with have been well-trained and ethical. People should be aware that every state has licensing bodies who are there to deal with unethical behavior, and it is our duty to report unethical conduct.

That brings me back to this forum . Please read our posting guidelines. This forum is open to the general public, and there is no guarantee about what anyone here might say. Please be respectful of others, regardless of how different your views are.

Thank you for visiting my site.


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Old 09-17-2007, 10:48 PM   #2 (permalink)
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hello to all...im having a little trouble in my current relationship. was looking on line and found this site. im just trying to find a site that will give me answers or just a place to go if i need it! THANKS
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Old 09-18-2007, 11:56 AM   #3 (permalink)
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Welcome to the site kellyjoshawny, I saw that you posted about your "troubles" on the forums here:

Want Advice!!need Imput!

Hopefully you will get some good responses. Thanks for visiting.
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Old 09-25-2007, 04:51 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Hi Chris I found this site well looking for anwers to my on questions. It helps to be able to talk to others who have been thru the same thing. Only one question for you why don't you have live chat? Hey any I enjoy your site Thanks Yen
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Old 09-25-2007, 07:56 PM   #5 (permalink)
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Thanks for the suggestion Yen. I'm pretty sure I'm going to give it a try. It has been suggested in the past too:

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My only fear is that people will stop posting if we have live chat, and the posts are important because they help people get feedback from a broader audience. The posts also help others going through similar issues. That's part of the great benefit that a public message board can provide.

A chat room is more private, which is good too. It enables more spontaneous communication between the people involved in the chat.

Moderation would be difficult in a chat room as well. If someone was causing trouble there (inciting others, or using inappropriate language); there would be little I could do to protect our site's visitors.

Those are just some of the issues I have been struggling with recently about it. I need to do some more research to see what kind of chat programs are available. I'm open to testing it out.

The Family & Marriage Counseling Directory (my site that pays the bills and affords this site to run) is undergoing a redesign right now, so that keeps me pretty busy lately. It may be a while before I can get started on the chat thing.
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Old 10-03-2007, 07:39 PM   #6 (permalink)
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Well I guess I can introduce myself as well. I have been married for over nine years to my 2nd wife. I have been through quite a bit. My relationship in no way is in trouble but any advice on what I did right or to share stories of what I did wrong I am willing to put in my 2 cents.

I am on several forums an Admin to 3, a moderator on 2 and chat on several others as well. I stumbled on this one and it seems like a good community so I joined.

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Old 02-11-2008, 03:41 PM   #7 (permalink)
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hello everyone it's my fist time on this site well i am having a lot of problems in my marriage and i just needed some kind of support.
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Old 02-11-2008, 04:45 PM   #8 (permalink)
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Welcome, onlylovecanforgive! I hope you find the site useful!
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Old 03-29-2008, 02:30 PM   #9 (permalink)
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I just wanted to say that I think it is great you started this forum for people who need advice on their marriage. Sometimes it can be hard to open up to a counselor or even a friend about problems that can sometimes be very personal. I feel your forums can be helpful in that you can get some truthful third party advice without leaving your home. Kudos to you Chris and I am glad I found this site!
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Hello All,
Just came across this forum and am having some issues in my marriage figured I'd read through the forums as well as offer advice whenever I can.
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Just came across this forum and am having some issues in my marriage figured I'd read through the forums as well as offer advice whenever I can.
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"]Hi' I just registered at this forum . Theres several interesting threads that have gotten my attention and lots of support and diffrent views circulating. I think thats Great to have a place to discuss many issues and hear multiple takes on the situation. I have always had a pretty high drama Life and tend to always journal to myself so the idea of sharing outloud seems very comforting. glad to have found this place' hope all is well with all!
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Lavender ~ Welcome to the forums. I look forward to seeing more posts by you.

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