Re: Am I too Young For This?
Get out and get out now! A man who doesn't take care of the kids he already has and doesn't stand by his WIFE who miscarried isn't worth pissing on if he was on fire.
You do not want a husband who at 21 has 3 (possible) babies and wasn't there for YOU when you needed him. This man is like Teflon. Nothing sticks! He can't care for his kids because of you, he was forced to be a daddy, he is the wounded party, blah, blah, blah. Get rid of the bum.
You seem really smart. Do not bring a child in to this world with this man. He has already shown you that he lacks character, responsibility and trust. Believe me when I say if you get pregnant, he will do to you what he has done to the 3 others when times get tough. He is the victim, remember?
Oh and FWIW, if that is your real photo, well, simply put.....you are GORGEOUS and have a hell of a lot going for you. Why on EARTH would you settle for a 21 year old loser who blames everybody else for his inability to be a man?!
File for an annulment. I know that sounds flip but I am not trying to be. I too was pregnant at 20 and yeah, had he done to me what your husband did to you, bye. Trust broken, fear that you will never be able to depend on him when you need it, inability to man up to his responsibilities, lying, making excuses, letting his family mistreat you. I truly see nothing good in this man and I am so very sorry you are going through what you are.
Last edited by Therealbrighteyes; 08-16-2011 at 08:05 PM.