08-20-2011, 11:21 AM
Join Date: Aug 2011
| | Help -- relationship breakup due to lack of immediate action in "emergency situation"
One of my friends has recently broken up. The reason being that she did not respond in a timely manner in an "emergency situation". Can you please analyse this situation and help her out by having a firm opinion: if she should pursue him or she should move on?
She is 40, has always lived with her parents. Recently she met a guy, same age, same nationality, who is also living with his parents most of his life.
They had been dating for 1 year and he proposed to her. They were engaged to be married the next year. He lives about 90 minutes away from her place.
The boy's father is sick and once had to be entered in ER on a week day. She was informed of this the same day and decided to visit the family on the weekend because she had work the next day. When she arrived that weekend, the boy's mother said it was "too late". The father eventually recovered and went back home.
The next week he broke up with her.
Half a year passed now just few days ago on his b'day, she emailed him saying she would like to get back with him. He replied he would have to ask his mother. She says the mother is hard to please.
Last edited by pablopable; 08-20-2011 at 08:28 PM.