In-laws and Holidays
I was wondering if you all could give me some advice. I have been married over four years now and this year I don't feel like going to the holidays with my husbands family. Two separate holidays, mom and dad are divorced. I have nothing on my side because my parents are deceased. Anyway before we got married I felt very included in his family and felt very welcomed. Since we married it changed so much it feels like it was a act to get me down the isle. Each year it has gotten worse. Last year at his dad's, I don't think 5 words were said to me if that. And I wasn't invited to Easter at hos mom's. I am not told about Holidays till last minute she is to busy to remember to tell me but everyone else knows.
It has come to the point my husband no longer mentions anything because he knows she probably hasn't told me or invited me. And I don't bother talking to him about it because he is a real Mamas boy and his whole family does no wrong. Well I feel they don't acknowledge me all year and then I should just be expected at Christmas. I just feel bad around these people.
I'm not expecting my husband not to attend his family get togethers, I just no longer have the desire to the way they act toward me. Am I being wrong?
Any advice would be great, thank you!