Re: Not sure what to do. Please advise.
I disagree Turnera...it's not his job to find her a new job. That just smacks of a lack of accountability on her part, if she expects that.
I think this is nu mystery. She was into him during courtship, and now for some reason she is not. It is very telling that he alone is distressed by this lack of romance, and she is not. It is exceedingly obvious that she no longer cares for him. Hey, if she is unhappy about moving to a bad place, or not having a job, she has a right to feel sad about that, but to take it out on him the way she is is NEVER acceptable. This shows she is retarded when it comes to relationships, and men. She does not know how to take care of a man, and I mean beyond watching his kids. Sad but I think this guy made a huge mistake getting married to this cold fridged insensitive tw@t. Life is too short to put up with that BS...I've been there done that. My fiance is awesome and I look forward to getting married in April, but if she starts pulling that sheet on me, end game, baby...END GAME...I'm 51 and life is too short to put up with that BS. I give 110% and I expect nearly as much back.
Gigong, here is a last chance Hail Mary strategy for you to try: Buy your wife Dr. Laura's book "The Care and Feeding of Husbands" and ask her to read it. If that book does not turn things around, get the heck out!!!
Too often a woman knows nothing about taking care and living with a man and making him feel happy. He needs to be sexed up big time, respected, appreciated, and supported. We are very simple creatures yet too many women these days are stupid this way. Of course one could say the same thing about most men. You are not happy because you are not sexed up, respected, valued, appreciated.....she gets a big fat F! Do accordingly!
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