Re: Wife that can't stand to live with my sick mom
I'll play devil's advocate for a moment here...
You said moving in with your mom was the plan all along, but whose plan was it? Did your wife happily agree, or did she feel pressured? Was saying no an option for her? Did you and your wife discuss and negotiate your living situation and job situation like adults, or did you just make your plan and carry on without giving her a say?
Why are you so opposed to dad's girlfriend? Is she a bad person, or just not your mom? Put yourself in your dad's shoes for a moment... If you and your wife have kids, then divorce, would you be okay with being cut out of your children's lives once you find someone new?
You should definitely be spending time with your mom right now. But if you got that time by running over your new wife and disregarding her feelings, then you have some apologies to make (if you'd like to stay married).
I've written this poem before but always through a window, never through an open door.
Last edited by OpenWindows; 02-03-2016 at 11:59 AM.