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loveless marrage

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so me and my wife have been married for 13 years this year and we have 2 beautiful boys. things between me and her have been going south for a while. she started to get cold and distant towards me about 7 years ago. she doesnt kiss me like she used to. when she does, it is like she is kissing a family member. very tight lipped. when we go make love, and thats maybe about once a month if i am lucky, she just acts like she has to, not wants to. she doesnt hold me, kiss me, touch me or anything. she just lays there and doesnt really do anything. this has been going on for about 7 years, like i said.

now i havent been perfect. i have texted different girls and had emotional affairs in the past. she has caught me and talked to me. i havent done this in the past 5 years and it was only 2 different women. not that i am defending what i have done. we have gone to therapy for our issues and she doesnt think that therapy works. i thought it really helped us. after therapy things got better for a while, but she always goes right back to doing her old things.

we recently had a huge argument about love making and the lack there of and she says that she would just be happy if she never had sex ever again!!! she says its not me, but i cant help but think that it is. she says that she just does have the desire to have sex and she does it for me. i just dont know what to do or how much longer i can take this loveless marrage. i have been keeping my promises and staying true to her, but i just dont know. any suggestions or advice?

oh and just for back story, she used to be a very very sexual being. 3 to 4 times a week. always affectionate and willing to have fun when ever.
 
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