09-26-2011, 03:52 AM
Join Date: Sep 2011
| | Husband having inappropriate conversation with co-worker
My husband and I used to work at the same place. I made a friend there and she is now his co-worker. We are kind of all friends but her and I are quite close.
She's enormously attractive and a huge flirt. She really loves male attention and she's very charismatic and beautiful. Anyway, he's told me in the past about certain things she's done (like appear at his doorstep and ask him if her dress is sl***y - the dress apparenty had a slit right up to the crotch.
Now I can see her doing that to any guy on the floor. That's how she is. But I was a bit upset with her for it. So that and a couple of other things had me weary, and I discussed with my husband how it worried me and he was very reassuring and agreed that she is very inappropriate at times.
Anyway.. I get freaked out when I watch scary movies. I watched one last night, so as I was working from home, my husband skyped me from his office so I wouldnt be "alone". Now, he forgot he had skype on and left for a meeting without saying goodbye and I didnt turn skype off either.
When he came back, he was having a conversation with my friend. It was a very animated conversation and after a while it was very sexual. Not as in a "come on" - more just jokes - but very, very, very explicitly sexual using words you probably shouldnt even say in front of a woman.
I'm very, very upset. The comments themselves I can forgive. What has upset me is that I had a conversation with him about this very woman - he reassured me in the privacy of our home. Then behind my back he exascerbates the situation and acts even more forward than I would dream she would act.
Ive spoken to him about it via text (it just happened today) and he's apologised etc etc but I just dont know how to feel. Any words from you guys would be much appreciated.
We have been married 3 years.