How is your marriage?
I love my wife and our marriage is good, as we define it. After 21 years it is still passionate. However passionate does not mean perfect. And, frankly perfect is boring. We have not had the huge and truly heart breaking issues of some folks on TAM, but we have had our moments.
We both argue our cases passionately (not physically or unfair) just as much as we makeup and are sorry passionately. Folks I don't care about I am dispassionate with as opposed to those I truly love and would die for. So, perfect? No. Passionate? You bet. Is that good? For us it is, it works for us. Passionate also means keep intimacy for us alone. Again, that works best for us.
One last thing, I discovered (recently), the best way for me to be a good father to my sons, is to first and foremost be a great husband to my wife. Of course that in and of itself can fill gigabytes of a server to define. It is not always what you think, but in the end it works for us.
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