10-05-2011, 03:21 PM
Join Date: Oct 2011
| | Re: I want my fiance back!! Plz help!!!
Originally Posted by Jellybeans
Dude is playing with you. He's just making excuses up for wanting out. First, he accuses you of cheating, then he gets in a fight, packs his bags and leaves and has been gone 3 months now and is giving you teh BS line of "I love you but I don't feel connected" AND worse, keeps you on a string "just in case" his feelings 'do' come back.
Listen up an dlisten well: a man shows you how he feels through his actions.
Words can be pretty and beautiful but TALK is cheap. How is he acting? He's been gone 3 months & has made zero committment to you in that time. Oh, he does feed you nice words but he doesn't back it up.
So my advice is to tell him "It's been 3 months. Either you feelin ga connection or you don't. I will not put my life on hold for you. You walked out on me and abandoned me and I deserve better than that."
File for support and let him go.
He's a little boy who isn't even man enough to tell you how he really feels and strings you along instead.
he never acted like that till i got pergnant with our 2nd daughter and when i went to have her he was mad at me cuz he accused the dr of flirting with me and he kept tell in me when we got home that he would trust me cuz he nos that i havent done anything to make him think that i was cheating and since weve been apart he is always txting this other girl that he says is just his friend and wuts worse is that shes 17 and hes 21 and ive read some of the things shes said to him and shes definatly flirting and he says that he doesnt flirt back and he nos i dont like it but he still talks to her and he tells me he hasnt been with anyone else and he isnt seeing anyone else and hes always askin me who comes over here and if iv flirted with anyone else and i tell him no cuz i dont and i havent plus i dont have time for anything besides working and taking care of my kids when he left i didnt have a job id just had our second daughter so i was left with our 2 kids alone in our house that i got kicked out of cuz i couldnt pay rent i had to move back in with my mother and i now share a room with both my kids it doesnt bother me but our 2 year old is always askin me where is daddy and when i tell him how she wakes up crying at night and asking for daddy and how when he has them for a few days and then they come home and she is angry and throws tantrums and screams and cries he calls me a liar and i had told him if he gets with someone else my daughters are not allowed around her and he got pissed and said so the only way i can see my kids is by being with u and i said no but i will not have my kids around another woman and he said that if he got married to another woman that he would take me to court but with that said he told me that he didnt want them around another man and i said ok thats fine and he told me that b4 i told him i didnt want them around another woman