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My wife of 10 years has told me that she would really look fake boobs. She was only a very small B cup before kids and now after nursing 3 kids she is barely an A. She says she just wants to be able to fill out a shirt and feel like a woman but I am having a very hard time with it since I am a jealous guy by nature. As a guy i assume she wants them to show off to other guys and garner more attention. She swears thats not it at all but says she wont get them if i insist i couldnt handle it. Selfishly they would be A LOT of fun in the bedroom but I know i would drive myself crazy when i wasnt with her. Any good advise on this??
I wouldn't do it. You have 3 kids and we're in the middle of a recession. Not to mention that most women wanting fake boobs most definately do it for the attention. Attention she probably isn't getting from you, at least not to her liking.
Err...maybe both of you should get some counselling...I'm not much of a fan of women with fake boobs...it kinda goes to their heads. So if you're that jealous now, maybe it's not such a good idea. And ya, I'd wonder too, why she felt the need after 10 years of marriage.
My hubs x wife got fake boobs (which he paid for) - and she promptly left him for someone else. Pfft!
Just to clarify, she wants to go to a big B, small C cup. Trying not to be noticeable just natural. And i guarantee i give her more compliments and attention than any of my friends give their wives. Lastly I make a very good living so the money isnt the issue, its my jealousy
Just to clarify, she wants to go to a big B, small C cup. Trying not to be noticeable just natural. And i guarantee i give her more compliments and attention than any of my friends give their wives. Lastly I make a very good living so the money isnt the issue, its my jealousy
JealousHubby,
I've been in your wife's shoes - had the Bs but wanted the Cs - not too big, but more natural for my body size. I did it because of my own lack of self-esteem and feeling less like a woman. Also, when your body lacks proportion, clothes fit weird/funny. In no way, shape, or form did I do this for anyone else, nor for more attention. I got plenty of attention from the opposite sex before and it's remained on that same platform. It's been 10+ years since my enhancement was done, and I have no regrets. I feel better about myself as a whole person and have more confidence, especially with my husband.
Instead of looking at it as a negative thing (oh....booooo, she'll get more attention from others and I hate that), look at the bright side - she'll feel better about herself and it will show towards you as well. Your jealousy is your issue, not hers. If you want your wife to feel great about herself, don't hold her back from going after the look she simply wasn't born with. If you do this for her, and get over your own insecurities, it will come back to you ten fold.
Feel free to PM me, if you'd like more advice or have any personal questions.
Firstly, when a woman considers her body it is incorrect to assume that it is to garner attention from males, husbands or otherwise. It is about how she considers herself whole! Does a masectomy patient want boobs just to be like pamela anderson? No... to become whole again.
I started pre-babies was a delightful 34C... in the mirror for my height, weight and general overall body shape and proportion, I was content. It was how I FELT I should be.
After 3 babies and extensive nursing.. (my babies never starved!) my breasts became a bursting DD. By the time I was finished nursing my last baby and lost all the baby weight (65lbs with the last one) I was 38 yrs old. Now as we age, the collegen (elasticity) in our skin is not the same. My mam glands went down to cup size B but with the skin stayed the same as the bursting DD. I felt like the cover of a Nat Geo magazine!! It felts I had to roll up my breasts to fit in a bra.
So I decided for MYSELF, since I was all done with babies, I wanted my breasts to return to approxiamately the same as before pre-babies, just like the rest of me. So I did have reconstruction and a slight augmentation. I am now still 5'9", within 5lbs of my pre-baby weight, 143lbs, and my breasts are what they should be, a 34C. I'm content with my image... as should everyone should be no matter their body construction.
I am still saddened that women still objectify themselves for purely sexual appearance....
Firstly, when a woman considers her body it is incorrect to assume that it is to garner attention from males, husbands or otherwise. It is about how she considers herself whole! Does a masectomy patient want boobs just to be like pamela anderson? No... to become whole again.
I started pre-babies was a delightful 34C... in the mirror for my height, weight and general overall body shape and proportion, I was content. It was how I FELT I should be.
After 3 babies and extensive nursing.. (my babies never starved!) my breasts became a bursting DD. By the time I was finished nursing my last baby and lost all the baby weight (65lbs with the last one) I was 38 yrs old. Now as we age, the collegen (elasticity) in our skin is not the same. My mam glands went down to cup size B but with the skin stayed the same as the bursting DD. I felt like the cover of a Nat Geo magazine!! It felts I had to roll up my breasts to fit in a bra.
So I decided for MYSELF, since I was all done with babies, I wanted my breasts to return to approxiamately the same as before pre-babies, just like the rest of me. So I did have reconstruction and a slight augmentation. I am now still 5'9", within 5lbs of my pre-baby weight, 143lbs, and my breasts are what they should be, a 34C. I'm content with my image... as should everyone should be no matter their body construction.
I am still saddened that women still objectify themselves for purely sexual appearance....
Some women do get them because they're insecure about themselves, some do it to please their guy, some want to show them off. In fact, I find a lot of women who have them done to wear more revealing shirts/tops than before.
OP--talk to your wife about how you feel about it and then let her decide what to do with her boobies.
I've been in your wife's shoes - had the Bs but wanted the Cs - not too big, but more natural for my body size. I did it because of my own lack of self-esteem and feeling less like a woman. Also, when your body lacks proportion, clothes fit weird/funny. In no way, shape, or form did I do this for anyone else, nor for more attention. I got plenty of attention from the opposite sex before and it's remained on that same platform. It's been 10+ years since my enhancement was done, and I have no regrets. I feel better about myself as a whole person and have more confidence, especially with my husband.
Instead of looking at it as a negative thing (oh....booooo, she'll get more attention from others and I hate that), look at the bright side - she'll feel better about herself and it will show towards you as well. Your jealousy is your issue, not hers. If you want your wife to feel great about herself, don't hold her back from going after the look she simply wasn't born with. If you do this for her, and get over your own insecurities, it will come back to you ten fold.
Feel free to PM me, if you'd like more advice or have any personal questions.
I am a small size A now... Was a high B in HS and college... breastfeeding took it's toll on me. I haven't gotten a boob job and at this point, probably won't, but I have seriously considered in the past for this very reason ~ I want my boobs back! I don't care about the attention, I just want to feel proportionate again
I know a woman who just had them done. she had them turn real hard and went back to the surgen and he said just keep massaging them and they might sofen up and then she found out that most surgens say you should redo them about every 10 years. for various reasons.
personaly I don't care for fake boobs.
even if the women is smaller I still like the real thing.
part of life is accepting what you got and learning to love what you got.....................thats sexy.
I know a woman who just had them done. she had them turn real hard and went back to the surgen and he said just keep massaging them and they might sofen up and then she found out that most surgens say you should redo them about every 10 years. for various reasons.
personaly I don't care for fake boobs.
even if the women is smaller I still like the real thing.
part of life is accepting what you got and learning to love what you got.....................thats sexy.
Would you accept and be happy, and love what you had, if your penis was the size of only 1/2 your pinky finger?
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Fake Boobs 
I got plenty of attention from the opposite sex before and it's remained on that same platform. It's been 10+ years since my enhancement was done, and I have no regrets. I feel better about myself as a whole person and have more confidence, especially with my husband. 
to you!!!
