Re: My husband is a bully
I never visited his "other home". In fact I didn't even know where it was in AZ till 2 weeks ago, when he asked me to send some stuff he left at home. (he left in such a rush cuz he couldn't stand another second with me that he left some stuff and asked me to send, then I actually had to ask him well I need an address to send then he emailed me the damn address). I have been thinking about recording the conversation. I am an idiot and told him that and he said no. But he is coming home today, so I am going to record whether he likes it or not. Thank you trey69.
Another thing is he keeps breaking my heart. He says I am not giving him what he wants (I am not interested to have a family with him, I am keeping a life for just my self, then I have a life just with him then I have a life with my daughters and I am not interested to have a family all together and keeping them separately). That’s one of his complains about me. That is somewhat true, My kids are 24 and 19, I have been a single mom since they both were born (there dad was my 1st husband, he was physically and mentally abusive and he was never there, he was physically present but sitting on the couch watching tv, so i had to raise the kids by my self). Now they are older and can take care of them self I want to have a life with my self too, but my current husband thinks I am being a bad mom cuz I don't want to spend much time with my kids and that is odd to him cuz all he wants is to spend time with his kids and they are not interested!!
So he says he is not kissing me or having sex or tells me he loves me or misses me cuz I am not giving him what he wants.
If I don't give him what he wants, is not be cause I want to be mean to him and purposely hold back, but what he does is purposely holding back what I need and there is the dilemma. I don't get what I need and it makes me frustrated and mad, then I don't tell him that but act on it obviously then he thinks I don't care about him.
He told me last time he was leaving that we got nothing but a piece of paper that says we are married. He said broke up better relationships for far less. He said I started the whole process but not giving what he wants so he just followed, so it is really my fault. OUCH!
He says I cook for him and give him a back rub sometimes and that’s all. Really?
Every year for his birthday I make a theme birthday for him (its his bday in few days and I have Star Wars theme for him, what ever he likes I made that for him. I bought Star Wars balloons, candles, plates etc. I got my self Princess Leia salve custom, downloaded the theme song and 4 other lap dancing songs). I always make sure he is ok and eats healthy cuz he is diabetic. Then he says I don’t do anything for him!!
Well maybe it is my fault too, I spoiled him!!
I am not saying I am error less, but I am not that bad he says I am.