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post #1 of 7 (permalink) Old 04-21-2016, 01:33 AM Thread Starter
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I have been married for more than a year. My wife is not mature in general matters. She never seems to understand what I want in life. she finds it hard to deal with people in general and has very poor boundaries. no priorities. I have tried hard to make her understand that we should have our common goals and work towards them, she finds it hard to follow up. And in addition she is exteremly sensitive to criticism and gets into fits of anger even though I am trying to explain things

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I have been married for more than a year. My wife is not mature in general matters. She never seems to understand what I want in life. she finds it hard to deal with people in general and has very poor boundaries. no priorities. I have tried hard to make her understand that we should have our common goals and work towards them, she finds it hard to follow up. And in addition she is exteremly sensitive to criticism and gets into fits of anger even though I am trying to explain things
Welcome @lost1111. Not sure if you know,but this sub-forum is primarily used by posters having a technical difficulty or problem related to the Talk About Marriage site.

You'll be better served if you start your thread in a sub-forum such as the General Relationship Discussion. My suggestion would be to just copy and paste what you wrote above into a new thread in that forum.

Hope you find the help you need and again,welcome to TAM.

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Hey there,

I have moved your thread to s more suitable forum.
I hope you get the responses you are looking for.

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How old are both of you?

Is it the first marriage for each of you?

How long did you date her before you got married?

Any kids?
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I am 38 and she is 31. Not dated very long. I have been married before. We dont have any kids.
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Could you please give some examples of the types of things she does that are bothering you. I mean examples of actual things she was done.
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She sounds immature.

Does she have any issues that need addressing?

For example mental health issues? A developmental problem like being ASD?

I think that marriage counselling might be of benefit.

Also, is it you? Are you perhaps expecting too much?
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