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Old 10-15-2011, 10:11 AM   #1 (permalink)
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more than sexual arousal than what harm does it cause.

Hi I'm 20 and am single. There's this woman she's married but well twice she's like done a hand job. I am not even a lesbian or bisexual for that matter. but I don't know I'm single and it's like not really anything emotionally I don't see how it can get in the way. We don't send love text to each or anything. She just gets me off. I mean what could go wrong? Advice?
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Find someone who is single too.
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Either get yourself off or find a woman who is not married unless of course she's prepping you to join her marriage as a third person.
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I don't actually like woman I don't even like her just what she's doing. And finding a guy I like I always seem to want a relationship with a guy it's always like I can't just sleep with a guy without having other feelings of like long term.
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Leave the married woman alone. You can get sexual fulfillment from a single person.

As far as emotions getting involved when dating people, thats human nature.
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Old 10-15-2011, 12:16 PM   #6 (permalink)
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You're young and its unethical and insane.
Don't be either.
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