lots of women post that they want friends first, not a fwb or one night stand.
Most of my friend looking for a woman for long term relationship want some action. this whole friends first thing isn't cutting it. It smells of cold fish.
isn't there some sort of happy medium? I mean who wants to date and throw money at going out while waiting to see if a friendship turns into desire? Lets face it if your over 45 yrs old times a ticking and waiting for some action just seems stupid. If there's physical attraction then ripping off each others cloths and getting some action is important.
I think its a power struggle if you wait or are friends first then the woman will try to control the sex like a banker. using it to her advantage whenever she feels like it.
there has to be mutual desire on both parts or its just not worth it.
Most of my friend looking for a woman for long term relationship want some action. this whole friends first thing isn't cutting it. It smells of cold fish.
isn't there some sort of happy medium? I mean who wants to date and throw money at going out while waiting to see if a friendship turns into desire? Lets face it if your over 45 yrs old times a ticking and waiting for some action just seems stupid. If there's physical attraction then ripping off each others cloths and getting some action is important.
I think its a power struggle if you wait or are friends first then the woman will try to control the sex like a banker. using it to her advantage whenever she feels like it.
there has to be mutual desire on both parts or its just not worth it.