10-18-2011, 03:37 PM
Join Date: Sep 2011
| | Re: very scared and confused
Originally Posted by sc5971
no kids, and we do know each other very well. She knows me much better than my wife. I feel much more comfortable with her than I ever have with anyone. I just worry that Im always thinking the grass is greener. Ive always been searching for that something and still am I guess. Im one of those people that is never happy. But I feel she may be able to make me happy. Just feels that way. Never did before.
Nuff said. You describe yourself as a romantic, always searching for that perfect person that will make you happy. I'ts honorable, but it isn't reality.
Everything you need to be happy in life is inside YOU, not someone else. Not much I can say here to make you believe that, you either 'get it' or you don't.
You would be a good candidate for a long term relationship, not marriage. You would probably enjoy just seriously dating people, keeping your options open at all times for that person who is just a little bit better. Nothing wrong with that, as long as you acknowledge it and go into the next relationship with a lesson learned.
It seems that your mind is made up, and you will leave your wife for greener pastures. Please be as kind as possible. What kind of advice are you looking for?