10-16-2007, 03:24 PM
Join Date: Oct 2007
| | Re: Arguments
draconis, if you're addressing me...
Usually when my husband and I argue its rarely over anything major. On major stuff we have similar minds about many things and have come to many agreements and compromises over the years. But we didn't have the best childhoods/past relationships so there are some... legacy issues.
I used towels as an example, but we've fought over silly things before--and it rarely turns out to be about what we're really fighting over. We get heated over things that touch our hidden buttons: power/control, self esteem issues, etc.