Wife and I have been married for 34 years and everything was great. Then all of sudden she has distanced herself from me. She is always texting and going out for hours. No seriously this is Thound. I couldn't get any replies to my emails for a new password, so I had to create a new account. And to any Mods, if this unkosher, please let me know. And I will try to remedy the situation. Posted via Mobile Device
I hate to break it to you, but it sounds like you are having an affair on your W ... To be sure, get a VAR, set it up in your car, and report back with your findings ...
Ellis i think you mean to say that she is having an affair on him.
keep your suspicion to yourself for now, until you have proof otherwise she will go under ground...if she goes out, follow her via GPS....look at the phone records for repetitive numbers
You can keep trying to reset your password through the forgotten password link when you sign in to your original account. It's taken some people dozens of tries before it worked. Another option would be to use your new account to send a PM to Yungster. That's an admin account. Ask them to reset your email in your Thound account to a current one, if you think that might be the issue. Or see if they can reset your password for you.
I would kick myself to the kerb, separate my finances from myself (actually I'm really good at this one), and do a 180 on myself. I would say that i would expose myself to loved ones and at work but that would be illegal.
Well so far I have not heard anything from Yungster, and Elegirl is going to delete this account in a day or so, I thought I would take this time to say some things in case I don't get my account back. First and foremost I want to thank the fine people here for their advice and support. I have learned a lot of valuable truisms here that I have applied to my life. I have changed my behaviors for the better. I am working on my passive/aggressiveness. I have learned not to be a doormat. The most important thing I have learned is that I will be ok no matter what happens, and that I am responsible for my own happiness.
Thank you all for touching my life in a profound way, and thanks for the 2X4s when needed.
The only person who really knows what is going on is her. It is easy to assume an affair - but it is best to confront her directly. Do so in a way that does not throw accusation at her - but rather concern. At least at first. If she is up to no good - there is time for confrontation later.
I also heard a Chilean refer to a foreigner as a "******" behind his back, and he meant it in a negative way. However I heard it used most often in a non derogatory, descriptive manner, or as an affectionate pet name.
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