Need Advice
I need some advice as well. I am recently married, four months about, to a wonderful woman. There's a 2 year old girl in the picture from my wife previous relationship. There's a dilemma I have been with this woman on and off for 7 years. We break up get back together over and over. She always asked about marriage and I have always put it off. Anyways this last break up was serious we left she moved to her hometown I moved to mine. Unbeknownst to me I thought we were still together. Well anyways During that period she got pregnant and had her daughter with another man. That loomed over us for the longest after we got back together. Four months ago however we got married. I somewhat felt pressured. That's the first half. Second half is there's this woman. I have known her since my time in Arizona so give or take two years maybe more. I had messed with her while I was single and she was married but she was in the process of a divorce. However her family got in the way of our relationship. So we ended it. She moved on and we would always manage to find our way back to each other. She makes me laugh, makes me happy and love her kids as well. She's pregnant now and I have been talking to her about how unhappy I am with my marriage. Don't get me wrong I love my wife, but we always argue can never see eye to eye and as she always put it it feels more of a business relationship then anything cause the only reason we stick around is cause we need each other I love my wife because of my health condition she makes sure I am taken care of to the T but so does the other person. Thing is that's true if it was a few years ago. Present day is I make enough about 2000 a month to be able to live on my own however she doesn't and that's where the dilemma comes in. I am about 50% wanting to walk away but my heart is too big because I know if I walk away then it may potentially leave them without anywhere to go but I'm unhappy. We been trying to work things out for a long time now. Advice please
I need some advice as well. I am recently married, four months about, to a wonderful woman. There's a 2 year old girl in the picture from my wife previous relationship. There's a dilemma I have been with this woman on and off for 7 years. We break up get back together over and over. She always asked about marriage and I have always put it off. Anyways this last break up was serious we left she moved to her hometown I moved to mine. Unbeknownst to me I thought we were still together. Well anyways During that period she got pregnant and had her daughter with another man. That loomed over us for the longest after we got back together. Four months ago however we got married. I somewhat felt pressured. That's the first half. Second half is there's this woman. I have known her since my time in Arizona so give or take two years maybe more. I had messed with her while I was single and she was married but she was in the process of a divorce. However her family got in the way of our relationship. So we ended it. She moved on and we would always manage to find our way back to each other. She makes me laugh, makes me happy and love her kids as well. She's pregnant now and I have been talking to her about how unhappy I am with my marriage. Don't get me wrong I love my wife, but we always argue can never see eye to eye and as she always put it it feels more of a business relationship then anything cause the only reason we stick around is cause we need each other I love my wife because of my health condition she makes sure I am taken care of to the T but so does the other person. Thing is that's true if it was a few years ago. Present day is I make enough about 2000 a month to be able to live on my own however she doesn't and that's where the dilemma comes in. I am about 50% wanting to walk away but my heart is too big because I know if I walk away then it may potentially leave them without anywhere to go but I'm unhappy. We been trying to work things out for a long time now. Advice please