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Old 11-10-2011, 09:36 AM   #1 (permalink)
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my separated husband, is with new girlfriend for 4 months. I have bee doing 180 and no contact for 2.5 weeks and felt cofident today so text if he fancied a coffee somtime? I have known him 25 years. There is no reply and I feel silly.

Does he hate me? head in sand? or totally loved up with girlfriend?

Back to plan A

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Old 11-10-2011, 09:38 AM   #2 (permalink)
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keep your head up and stay firm to your beliefs
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I would like to think he is in honeymoon phase and will soon realise her having 3 children is not much fun. And he will realise he has made a big mistake. And it will all go horribly wrong for him.

All this grieving stuff is such hard work.
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Old 11-10-2011, 11:55 AM   #4 (permalink)
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Plan A is useless when he's actively involved in an affair.

You need go Plan B and stay Plan B. GO DARK. NO contact.
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That is what I meant by plan A. No Contact.
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