Join Date: Jul 2011
Location: Wherever I lay my head.
Re: What are a wifes responsibilities to her husband in marriage
For my husband: He needs to feel respected, appreciated and loved. For him this means acts of service. Cooking, cleaning, laundry, those things. He needs to feel connected and to him that means sexual intimacy. I love sex with him so this is not a problem. I also talk softly to him. This helps feel connected. He needs to feel like he's important in this home, so I make sure there are things around here that he can do that make him feel important. He needs to feel wanted. I show this by affection and other things.
For me, my needs are rather simple: Affection and communication. These were hard for hubs but he's getting better. Affection he has down. Communication he's working on. I also need to feel appreciated and he does that by bragging about me to friends. lol. Sounds silly but it helps. I need sexual intimacy as well...he is more than happy to help in that department...I need to feel secure, and he is good at that (financially and physically...even though I work full time too). We are working on trust, but it's a work in progress.
Real women don't want flowers and chocolate.
They want vodka and Taco Bell.