Trying to understand WHY you would be banned from another forum.. over this story you are sharing ?? Were their heated exchanges or something ?
I know of a couple where she married at 16.. he was 24 at the time (or maybe 23)...they have 5 kids today, close knit family.. both wanted the same things... they did live in the same area though, no health issues or anything like that...
This is the phenomenal part of your story.. this man committing to you.. with the issues you have spoken here... Cerebral Palsy, an invalid ...and panic attacks ....how are you today?? Just imagining...health care is incredibly expensive in the united states.. even with Insurance.. if one has ongoing problems...this often overtakes a couple's life sucking every dime from them, then adding unthinkable debt ..... I see people having fund raisers just so they can pay their co-pays for cancer, thousands & thousands they do not have.
Does your husband have any health issues himself.. what do you & he have in common ?? So the love is starting to wane...you want to shoot it some dopamine (always helps!)....what do you & he do for enjoyment.. how is the sex ??
You mentioned how your parents paid for his ticket over here & this is when he decided to give it a go.. and see what happens... I hate to ask this.. but are your parents wealthy by any chance?
As to how I am, I'm okay. Better in some ways. I'm more functional with the anxiety and depression than I was. My cerebral palsy, however, is somehow worse at the moment, in spite of it not being a "progressive" disease as such. I still have occasional panic attacks and nightmares, but they are just that, occasional... not daily anymore.
So far we haven't had enormous financial problems. My husband got a job working at my father's company. At first he worked directly for my father who was/is in upper management, and therefore my father controlled his salary and was more than able to furnish us with a good life. Now that my father is retiring he works for the CEO of the company. I fear sometimes that my husband's new boss might be less generous than my father was, but as I said so far we haven't had any issues. We're quite comfortable for now.
I'm still under my father's health insurance, and will be for about 2 more years. We've begun saving up for the day I turn 26 and must buy my own insurance. I used to be very afraid of the day I'd have to come off my dad's insurance, but I'm more confident that we can find something affordable, which covers most- if not all- of the basic treatments I'll need. My husband tells me it won't be as awful as I've read about.
We have many interests in common, Mr. Suaveterre and I. He likes pretty much all the same movies and games I do, and since we're both extremely shy and introverted, we are each other's only real friends. He has work acquaintances and a few people we occasionally go out to bars with, but we haven't anyone close we would call true friends. As to the sex... well, to be honest, it's lacking. We were both virgins before marrying and I have medical issues which can make sex painful. I do have the higher sex drive, however. I can tell he finds me attractive, but when we do make love, 95% of the time I initiate it. Even after 5 years of marriage we have yet to learn how to truly pleasure each other, and have only just figured out the basic mechanics of the act.
As to my family's wealth... I don't know, to be honest. As a child, I never wanted for anything. I got whatever I asked for, but we didn't live in a mansion or anything. We didn't have hired help outside of a nurse for my grandmother and one for me. We didn't have a maid or a cook or a vacation home or anything you'd assume wealthy people would have. We lived in an ordinary middle-class neighborhood until I was 16 and my parents had finished paying off my medical bills. Then we were able to move into a much nicer home. My father tells me I will get a significant amount of money in an inheritance when he dies, but he refuses to tell me how much, not even an estimate.
P.S. I have NO IDEA why I was banned from Loveshack.org. I'm every bit as confused as you are.