"mommy is the kind of woman who cheats on her man. She's the kind of woman who lies to her family. Mommy is the woman who chose to cheat on daddy and who chose to end you family. I hope you grow up and marry a woman just like mommy son."
Years ago I was married with a child. I fell in love with a man I worked with. I am sure that he felt the same way though we neer spoke about it. My husband and I were very good friends with him and his wife. I, nor her, never acted on those feelings. I have never even told anyone about them until just now. Over time the love (the passionate kind of love) went away. But my caring deeply for him and his wife as my close friends has never left.
We cannot control feelings, they just are. But we can control our actions.
For the sake of her child, her husband and her marriage I hope that the OP does not act on her feelings.
People fall in love with people all the time. It isn't anything special really. There is another attractive interested guy around each corner.
You don't act on it if there is something greater to lose (a spouse and decent home for your child).
Steer clear of him, tell your husband you are tempted and don't play with fire. Fire will burn, not just you but the whole town.
They told us in the army: "Courage isn't the ABSENCE of fear-courage is doing what must be done IN THE FACE OF THAT FEAR"
It may apply here.
Love for your marriage and family isn't the absence of attraction to another-love is putting your marriage and family BEFORE that attraction.
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