Hi again everyone....
Its been a minute since I have been on here. I thought things were progressing well. We stopped therapy as it seemed to help and give us some tools to work together.
Anyways.. about a week or two ago my husband just got really blue. More so than usual. My behavior hadnt been the best as I was being ****ty and treating him poorly. I realize this and Im working to better myself and not be like that towards him. He is my other half I should treat him amazing!
I asked him the other day if he was okay and he just said "Im not happy, I dont know why Im not happy, Im just not." No answers, no reason why. Nothing. He tells me he is happy with me but he cant figure out why he isnt happy. IM SO CONFUSED! Ive questioned for days. He still tells me he loves me and he wants to be home with us but he wants to leave and come back?
So Ive improved my behavior and treatment towards him. He is still miserable. I dont know how to help him. He ignores my encouraging words and just mopes around. Then tension is thick. It feels awkward. We dont talk much. He is distant. It feels like he doesnt want to be around me at all. Ive stopped questioning him. I have no idea how to help him.
This morning he told me to just do what I do. He is sooo frustrating. I have no idea what is going on. I have no idea how to help him and am just completely lost.
Its been a minute since I have been on here. I thought things were progressing well. We stopped therapy as it seemed to help and give us some tools to work together.
Anyways.. about a week or two ago my husband just got really blue. More so than usual. My behavior hadnt been the best as I was being ****ty and treating him poorly. I realize this and Im working to better myself and not be like that towards him. He is my other half I should treat him amazing!
I asked him the other day if he was okay and he just said "Im not happy, I dont know why Im not happy, Im just not." No answers, no reason why. Nothing. He tells me he is happy with me but he cant figure out why he isnt happy. IM SO CONFUSED! Ive questioned for days. He still tells me he loves me and he wants to be home with us but he wants to leave and come back?
So Ive improved my behavior and treatment towards him. He is still miserable. I dont know how to help him. He ignores my encouraging words and just mopes around. Then tension is thick. It feels awkward. We dont talk much. He is distant. It feels like he doesnt want to be around me at all. Ive stopped questioning him. I have no idea how to help him.
This morning he told me to just do what I do. He is sooo frustrating. I have no idea what is going on. I have no idea how to help him and am just completely lost.