Join Date: Nov 2012
Location: Where I lay my head
Re: Partners change of heart but I am pregnant
Maybe he was okay being a step dad but not a dad. His behavior may match him learning you were pregnant.
But that is beside the point.... he cheated on you, walked out on you. Kick trash to the curb. You can do MUCH
better. I know you want to know the "whys" but in the end.... it really does not matter. He has shown you who he
really is.... believe him. Secure a reputable attorney and go after all the CS you can. Have him cover the child's
medical insurance, and allow him only supervised visitation. I will tell you exactly what I surmised about my x g/f
a few months back -S/he will one day grow up but.... I / you won't be around to see it-
A-Every single thing that has ever happened in your life is preparing you for a moment that is yet to come.
B-We know what we are, but know not what we may be
C-Never make the person in your present pay for the sins committed by people from your past