Re: Am I overreacting to this prenup?
While I understand completely the reasons behind a pre-nup, I would never sign one nor marry a man who asked me to. That's just my feelings on the matter - and I can see both sides, and where they're coming from, but at the end of the day it's not for me.
I understand about protecting your kids, but what about your husband/wife? The way my husband and I have done our wills (I'm his second wife, he's my first and will be my only husband), is that if I die all of my assets go to him, and then to our girl (his daughter, my stepdaughter). If he dies, one of his superannuation funds, including the death benefit payment goes to our girl and everything else goes to me, then to our girl when I die. I will always ALWAYS look after our girl, and would continue to meet his financial responsibilities for her in the event that we lost him. She will always have a home with us/me should she ever need it.