Re: Is it bad enough to divorce over?
Offer to take a polygraph if she will take one as well. This may clear up her doubts as well as yours.
Was the guy who you did not approve of married or did he have a girlfriend at that time?
I have to agree that the half naked pics were an emotional affair at least.
Was there a time when the passion left your marriage, meaning you still had intercourse but the kissing just died or she no longer want you to touch her breasts or something of that nature.