Re: Supposed to be getting married in a few months Fiancee goasting me?
I agree with everything said here, except the thing about hiring a PI. It doesn't matter if he's seeing someone else. WHY he is doing this is completely irrelevant.
CANCEL THE WEDDING NOW. Don't wait until you hear back from him. His lack of response is all the answer that you need. If he actually wanted to marry you, he would be responsive.
And, my dear... YOU DODGED A REALLY BIG BULLET. This is not the kind of man you want to marry. This is the kind of man who, when things get touch, will run and hide. This is the kind of man who will use you as a human shield when confronted by a bad person with a gun. This is the man who, instead of communicating with you when something is wrong, shuts you out completely.
A spouse is your partner in everything in life. They are there for you to lean on in tough times, and you are there for them. Your spouse trusts you enough to be honest, emotionally raw, and communicate with you. If something is wrong, a true/strong partner will come to you and confide in you their concerns, and you will listen and be part of the solution. He's not doing that. This man is not a good partner for you. Be grateful that he has run away now, because as much as this hurts right now, I promise you, he is saving you from a much longer, more intense pain in the future.
Cancel the wedding. Get back whatever money you can, and thank God that your chickensh!t ex-fiance saved you from making the biggest mistake of your life (marrying him), and move on with your life. Find someone who deserves you.
~Happily un-married since December 9, 2013~ "Either you're interested, or you're not. Fvck yes or no... As in, if it isn't fvck yes for you, leave me the fvck alone. I don't have time for playing games."