My wife and I have been married three years, together five. I consider our marriage strong, and yes, I am a worrier. She works for a large company and works from home frequently. Yesterday I was home and I saw some of her work related chats on the screen. She didn't seem to mind that I saw. She chats with a lot of guys from her work, about work related stuff. But there's one guy that she chats with mostly about stuff that doesn't have to do with work. This guy flirts with her, calling her pretty, saying he likes her. He knows that she's married. I've asked her if I have anything to worry about with this guy and she says no - she says he's skinny with a long beard and bald which she says is not her type. She thinks I'm being silly by being concerned. I haven't seen her come right out and flirt back with him in her chats, but couldn't the fact that she's chatting with him in the first place be considered flirting?
My question is, do you think she's chatting with this guy because there's something she's not getting from me? Is it normal to chat with members of the opposite sex at work like this?
My question is, do you think she's chatting with this guy because there's something she's not getting from me? Is it normal to chat with members of the opposite sex at work like this?